Episode 1 - When Oneness Means More: A Heart-To-Heart True Intimacy

You cannot do marriage without God. Not successfully. Not with depth. Not with true peace. Because 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞. He designed it. He defined it. He sustains it. “What God has joined together, let not man separate.” — Mark 10:9

𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗮𝗰𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗻 𝗼𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗞𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗱𝗼𝗺 𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗴𝗲—𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

And for me, that foundation started even before I found my wife. At some point in my life, I realized I was freestyling relationships—doing things my own way. But I came to God and said:

“𝗟𝗼𝗿𝗱, 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗺𝘆 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲.”

And that changed everything. I found my wife while I was praying. And from day one, spiritual alignment became part of our rhythm. We prayed together, fasted together, studied the Word. And we made it clear: This is not casual. This is purpose. I believe these conversations should happen at the beginning of any relationship. If you’re not serious about your spiritual walk—𝘸𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯’𝘵 𝘣𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘥 𝘢 𝘧𝘶𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦.

𝐀 𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐚 𝐬𝐞𝐱 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫—𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲.

As a husband, you are the priest of the home. It’s your role to teach the Word, grow in Christ, and spiritually guide your family. But your wife is not a bystander—she’s your co-laborer in the faith. She asks, prays, affirms, and aligns—𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘨𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦. “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:7

There is peace in praying together. There is victory in spiritual unity. There is power in agreement.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐜𝐲?

You’re not doomed. Maybe your partner isn’t on the same level—yet.

𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺.

Don’t retreat. Don’t point fingers. Do your part. Keep the flame burning in prayer. Keep showing up in the spirit. Some of the things we’ve overcome weren’t won with hands—𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝗻 𝗽𝗿𝗮𝘆𝗲𝗿.

𝐁𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐜𝐲:

Start with one joint prayer a week, Reflect on scripture together. Do short devotionals as a couple. Share testimonies and burdens. Go to church—not just as individuals, but as 𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀. You can’t be spiritually disconnected and expect to walk in alignment.

2/8 coming soon: Emotional Intimacy

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